Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Attracting Positive Thoughts Towards You Today

The Law of Attraction, esoteric magic, quantum theory and studies of the mind accept that we create our reality based on our thoughts. So why is it that we can think the perfect reality in our minds, focus on our goals, positive intentions and what we want all day and night, and yet we STILL manifest a load of problems in our life? Why don’t we manifest what we want? Why do people treat us badly? If we’ve all been thinking such positive thoughts, why are so many struggling financially for years? Why do bad things happen even when you have been thinking good things?
 
 
One of the answers is that many of our thoughts are not consciously generated. As many as 95% of our thoughts are beyond our conscious awareness of them. It is impossible to become conscious of all our thoughts, so we need other ways of mastering them. #livingfromchoice
 
In addition to those unconscious thoughts we are bombarded with “thought-forms” from around us. Every thought we think is radiated out into the Universe. When you combine a strong thought with  high energy (emotion) it is called a “thought-form” aka "mental-intention". It is as if the thought has taken form – which often it does. It takes form in your mind, which effects your emotions and then takes form in your physical reality.  #7-UniversalLaws
 
This is fine if the thought is what you want. But what if it is a thought that you don’t want?
 
How can you remain immune to unwanted thought-forms or random intentions?
 
The power of a thought-form to penetrate your mind depends on several things: its energy, your energy (vibration), your thoughts and your emotions.
 
Everyone is sending out thought-forms all the time. Although many are sent out without the sender even being aware of what they are doing, they can be used consciously. You can increase the power of a thought form with certain energy techniques and they can be used to heal or to harm.
 
If your vibration is “higher” than the thoughts-form, it will bounce off you, but when your energy is “lower” than these thoughts, you can absorb it and start thinking it as if it were your own. You may never know where the thought came from.
 
DO'S & DON'TS FOR STAYING IMMUNE FROM HARMFUL THOUGHT FORMS:
  • Do raise your energy/VIBRATION. Breathing is a great way to do this.
  • Do meditate to increase your spiritual energy and mental clarity.
  • Don’t accept the thoughts and beliefs of others. Any time you hear a belief or thought that you know will limit you in some way, make a conscious choice to dismiss it.
  • Do become aware of your emotions. Keep an emotional journal if needed. Every time you feel an emotion, positive or negative detail the time; situation and what caused you to choose to feel that emotion. This will help you to track your internal thoughts and the external triggers for your emotional responses.
  • Don’t blame others. Any time you blame others you weaken your energy. In fact you are giving your energy to them when you do this it increases their ability to send you thought-forms. This is true even for people you don’t know e.g. the government, or those in the financial services industry. Don’t feed them with your energy.
  • Do take responsibility for your own thoughts and emotions. You have a CHOICE about every thought you think and emotion you feel. No-one else is in charge of your mind or feelings, you are.
  • Don’t blame yourself. You current situation was created in the past. If you knew then what you know now you would not have created this, so blaming yourself is self-destructive. Blaming yourself for your past choices stops you taking action and making better choices. Also drains your energy and makes you vulnerable to further harmful thought patterns.
  • Do start making better choices by increasing your awareness and self-awareness. Pay attention to your experiences, life and how you feel. Any time you feel an emotion ask yourself what caused you to choose to feel that way.
  • Don’t deny the way you feel or suppress your emotions. If you feel a negative or painful thought allow yourself to feel it and learn to identify the source of your emotions.  Recognize the thought that is generating the emotion you are experiencing.
For more information on how you can master the effect of thought forms visit:  www.LivingFromChoice.com

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Time to Close the Gap

Do we really need to make "courteous engagement" a part of our employee handbooks?

It saddens me to see the continued separation we enforce with our fellow man in this society.  Something as simple as a parking place and it's an energetic fight to see who claims rights first or even worse yet, are you infringing on anothers boundaries by parking to close to the edges of the lines.  We walk through a store afraid to make eye contact, greeted by store clerks because it's actually been ordered in their training.  When asked, "may I be of assistance" we are programed to respond, "nope, I'm good" or "No Thank YOU" often diverting our eyes away from the person wanting to be of service.  Heck, I couldn't tell you how many times I've received change at a check out without a thank you or eye contact, just on to the next customer.  Do we really think this doesn't impact us long term?

Consider this scenario;  You awake from bed to a coffee pot that for whatever reason hasn't started.  Upon returning from your shower you realize that your significant other has taken most the coffee.  How do you feel?  Are you angry that they've taken more than there's by assuming?  What if they assumed you'd already gotten your coffee and knowing you don't normally take more they felt free to take what was left?  That simple scenario is grounded in scarcity and fear.  Fear that I won't get mine.  Fear I'm not important enough, fear I am not safe even.

Now, you just store this event in your fanny pack of objections that by the end of the day will be brimming with examples of how tough your day was.  And off to work you go.  On the road you experience a series of people who were completely checked out and half on their phones while driving thinking that just cause it's traffic and moving slow it can't be a hazard to text now.  No one even looking up or to the side anymore to be in relationship with the people in the car next to them.  You walk through work and get to your desk to be greeted by co-workers and the game of "who had a tougher morning starts"!  When did we decide it's beneficial to connect through our frustrations and miseries over our love and respect for one another??

After work you need to stop and get groceries, like more coffee!  LOL  You notice that the store clerks seem friendly and greet you every time they pass.  At first, you feel good at their friendliness.  But then it sets in that it's been placed in the company rule book to engage any customer within a few feet in a friendly manner.  Really???!!  Friendly, courteous and eye contact has to be put in the rule book??  That's as bad as the tag inside plastic bags that says "don't leave in the presence of an unattended child for fear of suffocation" 

As smart as our society has become technologically we've become dumber emotionally.  Our children know how to unlock a cellphone and find games before we will allow them to cross a street unattended.  We worry about SAT's and a college plan but invest very little if nothing in our youths emotional intelligence.  Teaching them how to connect with peers, why?  Because we as a society fear connection.  We wonder why bullying is at an all-time high in our schools.  Because we aren't connecting!!!

So, what...now what...
We must commit ourselves to begin the process of getting back to humans BEING instead of humans doing.  Each day to practice being connected.  Turn off your cell phone before dinner and don't turn it back on until the kids are in bed.  Look at your significant other as they lay sleeping in the morning instead of hitting your snooze alarm.  Speak to every person that you come in contact with for more than 3 minutes, and ask them a question about themselves.  Look people in the eyes when they speak to you.  And most of all...connect with you.  Look yourself in the eyes when you stare yourself in the mirror.  Hopefully each one of us brushes our teeth for at least a couple minutes...you gotta be there anyway, why not spend the time connecting with you?!  After all, if you won't be in a relationship with you, who the heck will???